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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #90 on: March 19, 2008, 09:59:14 pm »
Marius and Frédérique,

Although I posted my thoughts of my saddness at you news news earlier. After reading mgmarks poem, it brought back times when I was saddened and I therefore offer you this famous poem.

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the LORD.

Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.
For each scene he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonging
to him, and the other to the LORD.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him,
he looked back at the footprints in the sand.

He noticed that many times along the path of
his life there was only one set of footprints.

He also noticed that it happened at the very
lowest and saddest times in his life.

This really bothered him and he
questioned the LORD about it:

"LORD, you said that once I decided to follow
you, you'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during the most
troublesome times in my life,
there is only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when
I needed you most you would leave me."

The LORD replied:

"My son, my precious child,
I love you and I would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering,
when you see only one set of footprints,
it was then that I carried you."



You are both in my thoughts.

At my age, it takes me all night to do what I used to do all night!!!!!!!!!!!
Then, growing old is compulsary, but growing up is just optional.

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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #91 on: March 20, 2008, 11:02:12 am »
I'm desperately saddened to hear this. What an absolutely ghastly business, there seems to be no upside to it at all, there's little more I can usefully add.

I'll let the Zarses know, indeed Chris asked after Frederique last time I saw him. Just be strong big guy.
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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #92 on: March 20, 2008, 01:01:12 pm »
Marius and Frédérique,

I am so sorry to hear the latest news. We always hope for the best. I hope both of you can have the best quality time through this period. My heart goes out to the both of you. Stay strong  and live life to the fullest.

Chris from Cape Cod USA
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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #93 on: March 20, 2008, 01:29:48 pm »
So sorry to hear your news, our thoughts are with you both

Love Rowena, Vicky, Kate and Hayley x x x x

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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #94 on: April 03, 2008, 06:38:06 pm »
I got a call from Marius this morning.
Frederique died this morning in the hospital. :'( :'( :'(
I'm still in shock :(
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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #95 on: April 03, 2008, 06:41:05 pm »
I got a call from Marius this morning.
Frederique died this morning in the hospital. :'( :'( :'(
I'm still in shock :(

Thanks for letting us know.

My thoughts are with him and the family!

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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #96 on: April 03, 2008, 06:43:26 pm »
If there are people that want to send him a card.
Here's the address:
M van Herpen
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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #97 on: April 03, 2008, 06:44:01 pm »
So sorry to hear that news  :-[

Marius,stay strong dude. Our thoughts are with you.

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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #98 on: April 03, 2008, 06:46:34 pm »
I'm so sorry Marius. Stay strong my friend. I can't think of any words to express my thoughts but they are with you all the same.
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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #99 on: April 03, 2008, 06:50:17 pm »
Such sad news. You are in our thoughts Marius.


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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #100 on: April 03, 2008, 07:01:37 pm »
I'm so sorry to hear todays news :(

Marius, my thoughts go to you at this time. I'm stunned, as has been said, stay strong, hold onto the love you and Frédérique shared, and that while we remember and hold a person close they are never truly gone.
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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #101 on: April 03, 2008, 07:46:42 pm »
Marius, our thoughts to you and everyone in the family at this time. So very sorry, but hope you got to spend the last days together. John & Helen.

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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #102 on: April 03, 2008, 07:56:28 pm »
Marius

Our thoughts are with you as always

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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #103 on: April 03, 2008, 08:08:33 pm »
So sorry to hear your news.  Frederique's life was shorter than it should have been, but she was a lucky woman to have had you with her through the good and bad times.  We are sure that she knew she was loved, which is more than many people ever have, in lives three times as long.  Bon courage, mon brave.  Deb and Ian. xxx
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Re: Life's a bitch
« Reply #104 on: April 03, 2008, 08:14:10 pm »
Sad news indeed. Marius, my thoughts are with you...
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