We are all different. Many of the women I know are delighted when their o/h's b*gg*r off and leave them in peace for a few days. Provided of course, that they are allowed to do the same thing from time to time and (if applicable) leave the kids with the chaps while they enjoy themselves in their turn.
My o/h knows, and always has done, that if he doesn't like the domestic arrangements, then the door is that rectuangular wooden thing in the wall....