Hello again all
- sorry to have been out of the loop - been over in UK for a few days - Mmmm Tetley Bitter, Mmmmm real curry, Mmmm fish & chips......
Some very interesting comments in this thread.
I absolutely agree with Andy Z on this one (there's a first). I'm not a big fan of collective contemplation - it sometimes seems a wee bit contrived. Doing so while arseholed is asking for trouble. Someone will be disrespectful and the whole thing could end-up in a kick-up.
Personally, I'd feel a little awkward - I'm not sure it's an appropriate venue or occasion.
Several members of our group at the race are close family and/or very close friends. We have a bit of a weepy rememberence at 4.00pm on race-day for one of my younger brothers who died in horrible circumstances - and loved Le Mans. But rather than stand in silence, heads bowed and solemn, we celebrate him with Champagne. We call it 'raising a glass for the Wild Man' (he was a bit of a nutter, it has to be said) and we do it every year. We remember him - but in a fun way.
It might be wholly inappropriate and disrespectful to raise glasses to those people who died on the beaches and elsewhere in 1944, I don't know - but I don't think I'd really want to stand among a group, in silence, while the rest of the world staggered by laughing at us.
It works here in the states when they play the Stars and Stripes at a race - everyone, but everyone gets off their ass, takes off their hat and behaves respectfully - but if you're the minority, you're also a curiosity and a potential target for piss-taking, which will lead to a punch-up - I absolutely guarantee it.
Footnote: The Canadian Memorial at Vimy Ridge (between St Quentin and Abbeville) is a mind-melter.