Interesting tread here. If your coming to the US and want to really see the US, New York is like going to London or Paris and thinking that's what England or France is like, just not it. As IRW said, NY is full of energy but not a lot of normal Americans. Same for California, the coast is hell of a lot different than 99% of the rest of Cal, go to dumps like Fresno or Bakersfield if you want to see what most of California is really like.
If you really want to go to a huge metropolitan city with all the sh**ts & giggles but get a real feel for the US, go to Chicago, my favorite city in the world by far. Failing that St. Louis, Indy, Phoenix, Austin, are better bets than the usual tourist traps. DC is one third government, one third tourist trap and one third crack alley gun & knife club. Philly & Baltimore are sh**tholes of biblical proportions.
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