The best way is to miss a year, no- stay with me here, miss a year, that week will be intolerable for her. She'll be sending you off to planning meetings, dragging you around camping shops all May and ordering your tickets from the ACO for the rest of your days!
I missed the RAC for the first time in 16 years in 1999 and narrowly avoided divorce, now any race or rally, any trip, no probs.
